White men love Asian women
The topic of this article is a fact and a well-established one. If you ask about the “fantasy woman” of many white men, their answer would be an Asian woman. There are many reasons as to why they want to date an Asian woman and while some of them are downright illogical, there are others that truly make sense. “Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder” and this is particularly true when it comes to Asian women and dating. There are some American men that find Asian women very less appealing and there are others who completely worship them. Western women on the other hand are mostly repelled by the idea of Asian women and we can understand why the competition brings hatred. Many Asian women have stolen the hearts of white men and the reasons are vague to the understanding of white women.
What is it about Asian women that make them the best choice for dating ?
Asian women and their qualities
First, it is the appearance. Appearance truly does have a huge say in dating life. When a woman is well groomed and appears to be beautiful all day, a man can understand that she takes care of herself and that her confidence is very important to her. A woman who takes care of herself also loves taking care of people she loves and a confident woman has an aura of positivity that attracts everyone. Asian woman are quite optimistic and that can be seen with their smiles.
They have well-built and petite bodies and this is a huge attraction compared to American woman’s when it comes to the eyes of white men. Besides, Asian women don’t starve themselves to get that killer body. They are blessed with a metabolism that makes it easier for them to have a slim body. White women are either too skinny or too obese. The middle category is often achieved with strict diets and mostly starving. Anorexia is more common in western countries than in Asian countries. Imagine going out on a date with a western woman who is too picky about the menu and orders just a salad. Men love watching women eat to their heart’s content and there is no explanation as to why they love it.
Asian women eat as much as they love and it is a delight to see them not starving themselves because they want to keep their body slim. Women from Asian countries also have a set of rules that they follow when they are dating and irrespective which country your Asian woman is from, you ought to know these rules. The general rules that every Asian women adhere to are:
- Takes initiative: They like it when their man takes initiative for everything. This tells them that you like to be with them and shows them how much you care about spending time together. Dating a white woman comes with equal responsibilities and opinions. Sometimes these opinions could be strong and can make your choices fell thin. But with an Asian woman, you are always the one that makes the decision. They are used to seeing men take point in everything and for them, it is a trait of an attractive man. So next time you want to hang out with an Asian woman or take your Asian girlfriend for dinner, be the first one to come up with the idea.
- Loves to commit: When an Asian woman is truly into you, there is no looking back for her. White woman like to weigh their options a little bit and see for a longer time if you are the right one for you. That involves a lot of talking with her friends and a lot of analysis. Mostly when they like you, they are not the first ones to say it to you. With an Asian woman, this is pretty simple. If she likes you, she is with you. If she loves you, she makes sure you know it. If you are not her type then she will make sure that you know that too.
- Relationship first: Asian women put their relationship first before everything and this is a trait that makes them more attractive. When a woman puts her relationship first, it is a sign of a healthy dating life and a relationship where arguments become less. American women put their careers and their personal preferences first when the dating period is still young. But Asian women, no matter how short or long their relationship is, makes sure that she does not compromise her relationship for anything.
- Family love: She loves her family and she loves the idea of a family. When you get married, even if your mother is plain horrible to her, she will never be the woman that would ask you to stop visiting your mother. Instead, she tries to be the woman that makes it alright. She will try it with all her heart and that kind of effort is something that you cannot find in a white woman. When you give her a family of her own, she makes sure that she is always available for them.
Asian-American interracial marriage
There are a lot of successful Asian American marriages. One such marriage is the marriage of Dan and Lia. After dating for over 2 years, the couple tied the knot and it has been 11 years and there has been no looking behind.
“I was 25 years old and I was in a happy place. I had a girlfriend who I loved very much and I had the best circle of friends. My girlfriend and I were always eyed jealously by our friends because we had a great thing going on.
I don’t know if I jinxed it or if I was too blind to see that she was not compatible with me, but we broke after dating for a year and a half. That way I lost a lot of friends because they took sides. The main reason we broke up was because we had a lot of differences and we didn’t know how to get over it.
The breakup wasn’t smooth. It was quite ugly. We were living together and she would come home from work and not even look at me. I felt voiceless in the relationship because I was constantly giving in to her pleas and her side of the story. There were never two ways to an issue. It was always her way. I met Lia when I was still in a relationship. She was a teacher and she worked part time in a cafe that I visit everyday. She was always nice to me and I thought it was because she was a waitress until we met outside the cafe. She caught me in a moment of weakness and I opened up to her about my girlfriend. She listened to my side and she was always listening. She soon became a friend and later I realized that I was missing out on what I deserved by dating someone who I thought I deserved.
I waited for about 6 months before asking Lia out. Ever since, there has been no looking back. I am happy that I bought that first latte from her.